that is about the best advice there is that they have given you... i had the same problem you did as well... i could make just about anything i threw up at the rim in my driveway, but when it was time for the game, i was so nervous about what everyone was thinking about me when i was out there on the court. it really got to me. i always felt like the game was on my shoulders, even though it never was. i just needed to relax. that's what you need to do... don't worry about what your girlfriend up in the stands is doing... stay focused on the game, but have fun while you are doing it. keep your head in the game, and just relax. after all, it is just a game... keep that in mind, but don't lose your killer instincts. just stay sharp out there, do your thing, give maximum effort, and the rest will take care of itself. good luck out there...
