[OZZY]

If you need her, she doesn’t want you. If you don’t need her, she then wants you.



Girls are very stupid, not stupid as in mentally dumb but stuipd as in morally questionable and hypocritical in what they find attracted. Seriously they claim that they hate jerks and hate how boys act all macho and tuff. Yet a majority of them base their attraction subconciously on those exact traits. Give a girl a ton of attention and they become less attracted to you. Don’t give a girl any attention at all and they become more attracted to you. I have been thinking about this for awhile and I believe that once I get a girl friend I will be hit on way more than I am right now. Because once I get a girl friend I will not be looking for girls to be my girl friend, and thus I would pay less attention to them, and that would attract them.


Sure these forms of attraction go in time. But at its core, straight out attraction and first impression being a jerk is what attracts the most women. It is like saying a mouse is attracted to a cat. Why would a mouse be attracted to their predator? Women are attracted to their predator and that predator being the abusive husband that beats her, verbally insults her and uses her.


If only females thought like males and baised the entire first impression on looks

[stevemc]

I prefer the term "sensitive *******" to jerk, thank you.

[Dakota]

OZZY, did you just get rejected again??

[Hollis]

Originally posted by C-MO 22 LD!
OZZY, did you just get rejected again??

Well that quote isn't in his sig anymore...

[JazzMan]

Ozzy, what you say does not just apply to girls. GUys can be just as dumb.

I know a couple where the girl was all over him for ages, and always calling etc. They were never officially together, but (after using each other for a while) the only way to get rid of her was to dump her. It was the only way to get her to understand.

Now, the tables have turned. Now she doesn't call him all the time he's started doing it. He must have been drawing a lot of confidence from all the attention he was getting.

Anyone who does that, regardless of gender, needs to do a little self-analysis. WHich is not easy in your teens.

I was always flattered when a girl liked me, even if I didn't want anything to happen. I would often feel a bit sad when they went off me and turned their attentions to someone else. Feeling that is only human really, but it is really helpful if you are able to identify your own insecurities.

I believe everyone's goal should be to feel whole and complete whether they have a g/f (or b/f) or not. If you can feel secure in yourself, and not base your morale on other people's comments or actions you have achieved something really significant.

It's almost impossible as a teenager. So many kids have a need to feel love, and often the way they can get this is through the attentions of others. Even if the guy is "jerk", he may be able to make a girl feel special and loved, if only temporarily. Admitting that he doesn't really love you is hard, as it involves considering that you are unlovable (which is not true). Ideally, you should take this as being simply that he is not the right one for you, but its not quite that simple.

I've been through a lot of this myself. I realised that I drew a lot of my confidence from people fancying me, or getting hugs of girls etc. I realised that if all that were to stop, I would be left wondering what was wrong with me.

It wasn't until I learnt to really value myself as a single person, and to not base my self-image on the actions of silly girls, that I happened to meet the girl I am going to marry.

I'm not really sure what my point is any more. Sorry for rambling.

[OZZY]

JazzMan